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Our country was worst than some developing countries 50 years ago. Without good leaders and resilience, we remained in chaos no matter how the 'pioneers' slog. Many of the uneducated people were alcoholic, heavy smokers, gangsters and gamblers. Although they did not want to support the family, they have to send their children to school for the fear of getting caught when government enforce the law with funding. 

Some parents were very cruel by going on two weeks tour when child was having university examinations. They dumped pets and household matters to the child during these crucial times. They were so selfish to choose examination period so that they can reduce costs by bringing one daughter instead of two children. They rejected no matter how the child appeal. Since they are only paying education, tour, bigger furniture, electronics and room for one daughter, then why are they asking for the sky when the child is rich? They came back bragging about their enjoyment when their child was coping with reservist, work and education. What is so proud about eating snakes and insects overseas? Upon graduation, they wanted to claim credit and displayed extra large size family graduation photo. They did not support the university fees and spent lots of money in holiday. Even before graduation, they keep comparing and pestering the child for car, property, credit card, cash and holiday. Although the child is a finance team leader now, we don't print money like Americans. They threatened with inheritance, persisting the child to pay household bills for them to holiday in Europe. Finally, the child had to move out due to mental abuse. Why is there no justice for the children? We suffered a lot for the growth and success of Singapore, when basic necessities and education were poor in the early years.

After investing huge sum of money on their unwanted and unmarried daughter, she behave exactly like her mother. She is extremely jealous of others freedom, happiness and assets so she constantly makes life difficult for others. She always grabbed the best things and dump the unwanted ones to others, expecting everyone to be her lifetime maid. She likes to brag her poor valued house and car but do not want be responsible for care and parents maintenance. She has ugly look and heart so no man wants her no matter how much money she earned. She tries to satisfy her misery and loneliness with branded goods. She is a bitch and a good for nothing who work to support her pet instead of her parents who bring her to tour when she was schooling. She is going to kick her parents to nowhere which is her mother's retribution. She wants to grab things from others' tour and national day goodies bag, just to display all junk in the shelf. She is like the junk in the shelf. Single, desperate and unwanted. She thinks that she is so important to make people report to her, taking pictures of things to give her, satisfying her 'left in the shelf ' desire. Showing off her lonely shelf and staying alone in the house.

They are poor people who always pretend to be rich. They target rich people, pretending to be helpful and friendly and tries to cheat the house, fixed deposit and cash. After showing off their desperation, they want someone to solve their liabilities and greed.  It is someone's fault that her mother eat till overweight which required five maids and a stretcher. Her feet is always painful so she could not kneel in front of her mother in law. However, she can walk in silk road, great wall and europe with someone's money. It is also others fault that unmarried woman buy a big house but could not do housekeeping. Others fault that her mother could not do housework or cook for her. Others fault that her mother gave her ugly look, skin disease and she could not get married. Others fault when someone did not buy them a castle and treat them as queen. Others fault that they use air con everyday but do not want responsibility. Others fault that they have no money to show off and pay bills. Others fault that they have to vent frustration on someone and the maid murder them one day. Others fault that her son must bear the liabilities for their selfish act. They are very concern with big sum of insurance claims, fixed deposit and house inheritance. She is unwilling to use her saving and keep harassing everyone to satisfy her greed. 

They will find out our whereabouts on weekends, Hari Raya 2016 and appear like terrorists. They like to deepen the pain when people are taking examinations or in troubles. If you greet them, they will bring up estate issues. If you do not greet them, they will verbally abuse and attack your weaknesses. We must legally prevent and punish these irresponsible parents for the continuous torture they created.

As parents, they are bad influence to the young generation with many lies. They bribe others to bully the weaker victims with threats and tell children that they are doing good deeds by giving treats. They constantly make life difficult when the child got married and bought a house. for the fear that no one pay their retirement. They have lots of crap about blood is thicker than water, kindness, compassion and filial piety to satisfy their greed. However, they gave excuses when the child needs financial help. No one likes to have dinner or stay with them because they take things for granted, with bad attitude that everyone owes them a living, always pestering for better house and car to win their relatives when they do not want to save the struggling, poor child. They have nothing gracious to pass on, no skill, no talent but only a family line of skin disease for the next generation. Their family values are 贪 生 怕 死.

Are they good examples and doing Singapore proud? How do pioneers feel when children go overseas and abandon them? How do you feel about the effort to win certificates, medals when parents do not support and only want rewards to show off? 

Most of the rich lawyers would migrate or go for easy way out rather than saving the country from poverty. Thanks to our leaders and total defence.  Without them, there is no Singapore, no education, no tour and no medal to win. 

Be vigilant, for nothing one achieves lasts forever.

The elder generation has so many siblings who are uneducated and poor. It is terrorising of them including parents who are passing the financial burden to the only son when they are old now.

When you avoid toxic people and you set boundaries with them, they frequently resort to accusing you, complaining and playing the victim in an attempt to get you to change your behavior. Unfortunately, toxic people are everywhere. And they tend to attach themselves to those who are kind and have the most to offer.